Red Flags

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Love Bombing: Signs, Examples and How to Respond

Too much, too fast can feel like a fairytale. How to tell love bombing from genuine interest, real examples, and how to slow things down safely.

4 Nov 20264 min read

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How to Avoid Romance and Dating Scams in Nigeria

Romance scammers play the long game. Understand the tactics, spot the money ask early, verify identity, and never send cash, airtime or gift cards.

20 Jul 20264 min read

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10 Red Flags to Watch For in Online Dating

Love-bombing, inconsistency, dodging verification, money talk — 10 online dating red flags worth taking seriously, and what each one really means.

20 Jul 20264 min read

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What Is Catfishing? How to Recognise and Avoid It

Catfishing is easier to fall for than you think. Here's how to recognise the warning signs, test if someone is real, and what to do if you've been catfished.

20 Jul 20264 min read

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How to Spot a Fake Dating Profile in Nigeria

Fake profiles follow a pattern. Learn the exact tells — stolen photos, dodged calls, fast-tracked romance and money asks — and how to protect yourself.

20 Jul 20265 min read